Be glad for those who are genuinely happy for you. Be understanding of those who are not. Be thankful you're able to tell them apart.
Whaddya know, those who cared about you were right all along. You'll find it's effortless and beautiful. You can't make this love up.
And, when he/she tells you, you are perfect, just smile knowingly and say, "No, we're just right for each other."
You will remember the adage: "If a relationship has to be a secret, you should not be in it." And, you will be glad you took heed.
Vulnerability. Yeeeaah. About that. Here's the thing: Can you trust that person with yours? And, as they learn your imperfections, do they love you anyway? Yes? Then, beyond the jones, you've got a good thing going on.
Is the default set to repair or replace?
What of your core beliefs and values? Hey, "Opposites attract but likes stay together."
God is holding your heart. And He has promised to restore to you the years that the locust had eaten.